The Straight A Playbook Workshop: “Play the Game”

I am offering a one-day study skills workshop for teens who want to improve their grades.  It doesn’t matter what your grades are now or if you want to improve them a little or a lot!  It will be offered on the following dates (pick one):

 

April 21st  (Saturday 10- 4-30pm)

June 23rd (Saturday 10-4:30p)

July 28th (Saturday […]

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Should I Tell My Child About……?

One question I often get asked is, “Should I tell my child about (some difficult topic)?”  In order to answer, I often go back to a book by Marsha Linehan, Ph.D. where she describes the childhood environment of individuals who are diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.

People diagnosed with BPD had an “invalidating environment” or they […]

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Hakomi: Body Centered, Mindfulness-Based Therapy

For the past several months, I’ve been traveling to Austin, Texas for a comprehensive 2-year training in Hakomi therapy.  Hakomi is an Native American word that means, “where do you stand in relation to these many realms?”  I learned about Hakomi when I was 25-years-old in my Master’s program when we had a guest speaker […]

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Good Functional Family Rules

The book The Family, by John Bradshaw, was published back in 1988.  I’ve been rereading it.  It’s a great book if you want to look at family dynamics and the roles we play to get our needs met.  He goes into detail even beyond the idea of the scapegoat, the superhero and the lost child. […]

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Developing a Mindfulness Practice

The people I work with have extraordinarily busy lives. They have problems that need dealt with or ones that threaten on the horizon. Life is difficult, no matter how positive you try to be. I’ve been thinking “what is one thing that really could help?” Because we can’t all quit our […]

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The Dance of Anger – Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.

I think this is an important classic on anger and assertiveness.  Many people tell me: “I can’t figure out the line of when I need to be assertive or just let it go”.  In fact, I get asked the question many times a month, if not a week!  Where is that line exactly and how […]

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Gaslighting article

www.goodtherapy.org/blog/gaslighting-a-slow-burning-abuse-tactic-0121154

 

 

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28 Purpose Focused Activities

Okay, I haven’t forgotten about the follow up to the last post.  In case you haven’t read it, I basically said I almost died from pneumonia in November (no joke) and had the awakening moment that if I don’t do that thing I’ve always wanted to do, it’s basically now or never.  I also did […]

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The Bad Things Lead to Purpose?

Many times people come to see me after they’ve experienced something bad like a trauma, an illness, a divorce, a breakup, or a job change. I’m calling these things the “bad things”. These bad things not only rock our world, they change our worldview. We thought life was going to take one path, things were […]

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My Thoughts on Domestic Violence Awareness Month

*   You can watch the award winning movie Private Violence on HBO on Demand for the next two months. Highly recommend  *

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and I’m one of those people who believes every month should be Domestic Violence Awareness Month just like every month should be Breast Cancer Awareness Month.  The […]

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